How Kyle Proposed

As I said before, Marcela thought I was heading to St. Louis when I was actually preparing to propose. What she also didn't know was that I had asked many people close to her to submit one word they felt was the best description of my new fiance. Once I had these words (16 of them in all), I worked them into the speech that I read to her just before putting the ring on her finger. The words given to me by others are in bold. I also included a picture from the night we really got to know each other (Marcela's birthday party this summer at The Foundry in Westport). Enjoy the speech and the pic!

From the delightful first night we spent together, I knew we had something special. From your kind eyes to your radiant, lightning-rod of a personality, it was clear you have a quality about you that few others do. Your compassionate way is contagious. No one could argue that you are the embodiment of what a (true) friend should be. You are skillful in listening to others, offering advice and being supportive. Without a doubt, you are like a breath of fresh-air to all of those in your life. I like that we both (mostly) grew up in the Sunflower state and that we share so many of the same values and beliefs. The confident foundation our parents have laid in each of us will allow us to be kind and compassionate with one another on a daily basis, but to stand our ground when the time is right. You are my editor, my lover, my confidant and my best friend. Our love has quickly become unconditional, resilient and true. Farruca, you have put a hand-print on my heart that will never be removed. I now ask you this: 

Marcela Rodriguez, will you be my wife?

We're Engaged!

At almost exactly midnight on December 25, 2008 (Christmas Day), I, Kyle Rogers, proposed to Marcela Rodriguez at my parents house in Stilwell, Kansas. She thought I was en route to St. Louis, Missouri with the rest of my immediate family, but I stayed behind to ask her hand in marriage on her favorite day of the year. We then celebrated Christmas morning with her dad, mom and brother before heading to St. Louis to celebrate with my mother's side. So far, this has been by far the best Christmas ever. Check back here throughout the next year as we start to finalize plans for our wedding. Thanks to everyone for the love and support!